Girl Becomes Mom at 11 on Her Wedding Day

The day of her wedding was also the day when she gave birth to her daughter. The white wedding attire wasn’t exactly the symbol of innocence for the 11-year-old girl from Bulgaria by name of Kordeza Zhelyazkova.

Kordeza Zhelyazkova

Kordeza’s story is simple and touching: meeting her would-be husband, Jeliazko Dimitrov, 19, on the school playground. Engaging themselves in games and then in sexual games. Preventive measures? Using a condom? They hadn’t even heard these words.

Now Kordeza is the mother of a charming little girl named Violeta, who will probably start going to school when her mother will be finishing it.

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  • Travis Smith

    WOW!!…Can anyone say pedophile?! That poor little girl…seriously my jaw is on the floor. I understand cultures are different but wow, that guy should be in prison awaiting the death sentence.

  • Navygunner

    Like everything else on these web sites they didn’t tell the whole story. The age of consent in Bulgaria is 14!! and she lied to him and told him that she was actually 15. Why do people always impart their convictions of morality upon other cultures before they know the whole story.

  • Jai,kumar

    There doing good Job at the age 11,14 or 15 what ever might be , but really it a good thing . If a boy or girl who is operating the Windos XP (or ) 2007 or Computer programe at the age 5 you people appriciated , why not this , people should not interfier with other person mater , who r u to say put in life sentence . they know what to do or what not to do .

  • Jessikah

    To Jai,kumar: You are a very stupid person. How in the hell could a girl getting pregnant at 11 be a ‘good thing’? she had her whole life ahead of her, now she is stuck with a baby because some phucking 19 year old sick phuck couldn’t keep it in his pants. Here in Canada that man would have been put away for life because he raped a little girl. What if it was your 11 year old daughter that he decided to rape?

    …You are by far the dumbmest person ever to walk this planet….same with you navygunner. The guy is 19. HE should know better then to have sex with ANYBODY under the age of 18.

  • ku5hXx

    to jessikah ummm how exactly do you know she was raped?? maybe she wanted it?

  • mj

    because even if an 11 year old “wants it” its still rape.
    if an 11 year old wants to smoke we don’t them, because 11 year olds can’t make educated decisions for themselves.

  • http://geniuspregnancy.com Gaby

    what a naughty girl wanting sex at age 11.

  • Emily

    a lot of people r saying that she is the youngest mother in recorded history, but she’s not. Linda Medina is. u can even look her up. she had a baby boy when she was 5 years old! i am not lying! just look it up if u dont believe me!

  • Matt

    Jessikah, you, mj, and Travis Smith are without a doubt the most ignorant, closed-minded people I have ever encountered, and I can honestly say that I feel the world would be better off without your special brand of stupidity.

    The 11 year old girl was not raped. She and the 19 year old had sex. Together. Because it was legal to do so. Why you can’t get that through your head and feel you must impose YOUR values on a completely different society is beyond me. Here in the US (I assume that’s where you are from) 11 year old girls are having sex before, after, and during school every day! You can’t say that their decision to do so is any less informed than a 20-year old woman’s,. because I’m pretty sure they all learned in sex ed class (not to mention it’s common sense) that they can and will get pregnant if they don’t use protection.

    Goddamn you people are dumb.

  • Matt

    And seriously Travis—the death penalty? Grow up.

  • Manuel

    Hey Matt!! Please show to all of us your APA ID Member Card (“American Pedophile Association”)…. Can’t wait to see it and put you on jail….

    How is possible to anynone to even think as good thing when children (11 years old still childhood) had sex and get pregnant…. Only APA members could think like that….

    By the way, APA is not a real, is sarcasm, in case you try to contact them!!!!

  • SJS

    THAT’S CRAZY WHAT I’VE READ HERE! I HOPE IT NEVER HAPPENS IN THE USA! MAYBE IT’S NORMAL FOR BULGARIA, BUT NOT FOR OUR SOCIETY.

    PS: YOU’RE CRAZY MATT !!! YOU HAVE PROBABLY TRIED SEX WITH CHILDREN YOURSELF???

  • Matt

    Hey idiots, did I SAY it was a good thing? Why the fuck are you calling me a pedophile when all I did was re-iterated the facts stated squarely in the article: That this happened in Bulgaria, where it’s normal. Call me names all you want, but when all is said and done there is a smiling girl in that photo who seems happy that she has a baby. NOWHERE in the article did it say she was abused. So both of you get off your moral high-horses and GROW UP.

  • Matt

    Just to clarify it one more time since it probably STILL hasn’t sunken into your fat little skulls:
    I am as much against child abuse as any of you.

    UNFORTUNATELY….

    “Kordeza’s story is simple and touching: meeting her would-be husband, Jeliazko Dimitrov, 19, on the school playground. Engaging themselves in games and then in sexual games. Preventive measures? Using a condom? They hadn’t even heard these words.”

    This doesn’t sound like child abuse. Read a little about Bulgarian culture before you judge, OK?

  • Manuel

    Ok Matt, sorry about that….

    Maybe u right. Maybe we misinterpreted your words. Maybe is common for people far away USA to let children play with adults. Maybe it is common that girl in fact never heard about condoms and preventive measures. Maybe the 19 yrs old husband like young girls (too much younger)…. I like to know if in eleven years when her child got pregnant by a horny prick like himself, he would realized what he did……
    Here in Peru, bullfight is part of the culture. It is cruel and promotes brutality, but it is considered “culture”, however, that does not make it better or acceptable……

    do You have daugthers…? hope not.

    In case you have, why dont you introduce with your partners in Bulgaria, maybe you would be grand father soon….

  • Matt

    Manuel, I am not Bulgarian, I am American. And I never said it was normal or right for a 19 year old to get it on with an 11 year old, only that it seems like that sort of thing is acceptable in Bulgaria. To me all that matters here is that no one seems to have been hurt, and the girl seems happy. If this had been a clear-cut case of abuse, fine, but it doesn’t look that way in the slightest.

  • George

    Actually this happens all the time (girls having babies at such early ages) among the gipsy communities in Romania. They actually get married at such ages; their parents decide who marries who.

  • Alycea

    Uhg,this is sick.People in that country are sick people,don’t you agree?

  • Trev

    wow i am so glad i don’t live in the USA. i have some values that are not based on selfishness how the world is according to USA is how it should be for every one, oh piss off . Get your own shit together in your own country before telling others how to run their own lives if it works for them and does not harm anyone, so be it, i suppose your history is not the same as other countries a few years back it was the sign of woman hood her first period she has become a woman she can now marry and bare children some thing like that. as her life span maybe be shorter than yours as her life style is poorer than your countries, no hospitals etc . no health care and running water she maybe lucky to live to the good old age of 40 if she is lucky and her kids may survive until it is a few years old wow but what the hell don’t have kids because it might offend some western liberal on a crusade to fix the world with wars. lies and debt, so mind your own business live your life and help others not criticize them for trying to survive this mess we all live in

  • Steve

    Trev, I couldn’t have put it in better words. I am not saying that it should be normal for everyone to have sex with young kids, but these people probably didn’t even know that what they were doing was wrong (or maybe not convenient). We are animals after all, remember? Reproduction is an instinct that we no longer follow because of what society has thought us. If two people are in love and they feel this urge, which they probably don’t know the consequences of, they will just do it. Lets just hope that in the future such countries will have the means to educate all their people in these topics. I could just go on and on, but as it has been said here before, I am just glad that no one was hurt, both the mother an child look healthy and happy.

  • ela

    for gipsy girls in that area (eastern europe) 9-13 years for being “married” is normal and most of them in poor conditions do have kids at 12-13, only the richer families can afford to keep them home, but still if a gipsy girl is not married at 16, or at least engaged she will probably never get a gipsy spouse. talking about families with 5 kids each in one one of the girls had this issue, and got married at about 30 with another national guy, in the other family there is also one who is almost 30 not married, and won’t be with another gipsy for sure

  • ashley

    This is really shocking to me to find out that an 11 year old to be having sex at her age. But i can understand that it is different in some cultures that it is ok to get married and have sex at a young age. But still this is really shocking for to have a baby at her age.

  • Sarah

    Look, I do not think this is a good situation. I don’t think having a child at age 11 is a good idea by any stretch of the imagination. However, please stop being so nasty to Matt. He has a good point; this short snippet of the story is not telling the full facts. The girl DID lie to the boy and say she was 15 (which is believable, from her appearance). This is NOT illegal in Bulgaria where the age of consent is indeed set at 14. Also, the pair are now married with the 19 yo husband stating his desire to care for his wife and daughter and worried he won’t be able to because of the prospect of jail.

    They both may have made some stupid decisions, but this is not rape. Keep that term for situations that actually warrant it.

  • Topa

    She is a cute SLUT

  • Anpu M V

    its insane for a 11 year to be a mother. From the picture above, she’s excited and
    doesn’t seem to have to realize how to move forward. its seems her parents have to look after their grand child along with their child. As for the 19 year old guy, atleast some punishment must be given??????????

  • Cory

    Are you guys mental? The 19 year old was more than old enough to think ‘sex = baby’ with or without knowledge of a condom.

    Yes. She SAID she was 15 but come on. He was in her PLAYGROUND. She’d be roughly 10 years old! And if that wasn’t a big enough hint for the man, her lack of sexual knowledge and innocence should have been one hell of a hint. Now she’s got a baby and will probably not return to school.

    I don’t know where you guys come from, but in my country, it doesn’t matter what the under age girl says. If she is under age, she is under age, and that means jailtime for the idiot who slept with her.

    Besides, what kind of prick goes into a playground and starts to ‘have innocent fun’ with the girls there?

  • cyn

    if u look at this another way, some times in certain societies, girls being married off at the peak of their fertility is a social responsibility for them. The peak of fertility is usually about 14, but not always the case, it really depends on the physical maturity of the girl. As I see, the girl certainly looks ‘ripe’. I don’t really know about their culture, but for my grandma’s era, it was normal to be married off to have children as young as 12 or 13, sometimes it isn’t about stupid parents or what, but for them marrying off their daughters early is a sign of good planning for her future in her society back then.

    The girl and boy may be naive and all, but it is both consensual. Indeed true that under 18 will be considered rape or what… but some laws is that if both gets married with parental consent before the child registers (as in born and registered as citizen), they will not be charged because they can give birth once they are legally married no matter the age. And because you can’t really blame the boy alone, it is best they got married and not get punished at all.

    Seriously, who are we to judge if they are stupid, or if their parents are dumb, or whatever.
    She seems happy, whether for now or not, it is not our problem. Just like we should not make noise about other social or religious practices, we shouldn’t judge them this badly.

  • Ornori

    Jessikah, How on earth are you to say he raped her, i was once that age and saw what kids that age did and thought was ‘cool’ and i had been in that culture, yes it is sickening but she could of got rid of the child or not gotten pregnant in the first place.

  • Ornori

    Matt is completly and utterly correct.

  • virat

    she is so sexi . i want do sex with her . beacause i like young girls and i have already 12 year old girlfriend.

  • Ophelia

    @virat: fuck off and die a dog’s death in your hell hole. wtf is wrong with you?! Can’t you even look at a girl (in this case a kid) without screaming S-E-X in your head? You muthafuckin’ bastard

  • vikki

    hey,, u virat u stupid……. what nonense is this ??????

    condemn it !!

  • vikki

    yes u r right ophelia

  • SYN

    Guys get a cup of coffee and relax…there are more severe issues to talk(fight!!!!) about.

    And’s It’s for sure no one will care about what happens to the girl after everyones own problems creep into their brains…Then why the hell are people fighting their asses off(WORD-FIGHT grrrrrrrrrrr)…Commenting,judging,critcizing are very deep things to be just passed over from a lazy chair…Who cares or does something when a country attacks another country,when the gangsters or the terrorists kill people???No one…people who care can do nothing and people who can do something,cares a damn…But some us idiots like us(including me) fight over internet and pollute the cyber space…Shouldn’t think or do something fruitful that helps everyones society,The Humankind………….phheeww!!!That was a long speech….so guys vote for me…… ;-p

  • virat

    to vikki & ophelia  iam just lieng sorry idont know more inglish. soryy . i was want to see ur  feeling soryy again

  • virat

    can i cut my  durty comment

  • donna

    that is sick but it happens all the time. i dont know who is at fault but at lest he owned up to the fact that he got her pregnant. he could have said it wasnt his and left her on her own. but the thing is some parents arent telling there kids about sex. it could be because their embarrassed or because they think that they dont have to right now. when i was in middle school one of my friends told me that a girl had sex when she was11 and i didnt believe her. i asked the girl and she said yeah she had sex. she even seemed proud. i was shocked an 11 year old girl!! and guess what I LIVE IN THE USA. it can happen anywhere so you people who think “oh that doesnt happen in the us THINK AGAIN!!

  • harry

    its ok ,viratt. thak god u understand.

  • http://cheering4u.wordpress.com Cheering4u

    Adults are weird. And people say my generation’s the one that’s going to run the world straight into the ground! I can only assume you guys are fully grown adults, and yet here you are arguing about something that has no effect on you what so ever! (With appalling spelling and grammar, by the way.) Yes, the girl was really young, yes, it is interesting. Why can’t people just leave it at that, without resorting to name calling and petty insults? Seriously, grow the hell up.

  • mrinal

    i got all of you. but guys its there personal matter and might be valid in there country. to me the girl do not look like a kidd. but if it happened in india(tripura- my state) she might be killed by her parents. i am 20 years and still didn’t find the courage to bring a girl to my place.
    11 years old girl getting a child is not a good . but guys its the NATURE that enabled a girl to become a mother at that age. you people can’t blame these couple coz sexuality is coded into human genes.

  • peter fernandis

    i want to fuck her once. what a sexy she is.mmmmmmmmmmmm

  • Salma

    You know according to the bible, people had thought that Mary was but 13 years old. Now that is a couple year older than 11, but i’m saying, girls start their periods, not women, girls. In other cultures, yes it is disgusted and frowned upon for such a young girl to have sex and be married with kids, but it happens, in many, many, many, places. Cultures are different. If a girl has their period so young, perhaps it is meant that from that age and older, she is allowed to have a family. I’m not a scientist or a professor as to say when the correct age is to have a family, or perhaps how to live the perfect life style. Not everybody is going to accept any 1 idea or any 1 culture or any 1 beleif as the way we should rightly live and what is proper. 

  • Salma

    as an American though….I agree it’s not normal and def wouldn’t want my 11 year old daughter having a kid. It would never happen because she would be in a girl school if the case was that extreme 

  • Charmaine

    everyone stop… in bulgaria i did some research there and i happend to be the girls teacher. She indeed was raped the reason why she is smiling is because her parents told her everything would be ok, and nobody disliked her thats why she thinks her life has changed the 19 year old is now dead her father killed him and her father is serving 12 years of prison now can this argument stop???

  • crystal

    hmm thats crazy, i dont know that much about child bearing but an 11 year old pushing out a baby must have been difficult! They didnt know about condoms so there probably wasn’t any epideral either. WHOA she’s like a super girl

  • raven

    with just a small amount of research here is the website I found with the story…….I will not agree with what happened BUT IT IS MY OPINION I will not say anything else on the subject BOT MY COUNTRY NOT MY CULTURE WHO AM I TO JUDGE I will not force my values or beliefs on anyone else BUT THAT IS MY OPINION (and my mom always taught me opinions are like a**holes everyone has one and they dont all smell very good…..BUT I deter here is the website

    http://articles.nydailynews.com/2009-11-03/news/17940024_1_wedding-8-ounce-girl-baby

  • raven

    grrrrr dang it I misspelled the word but, probably shouldnt be typing at 5 am :}

    it should have said BUT NOT MY COUNTRY just to clarify

  • http://www.packersandmovershyderabad.in packers and movers hyderabad

    its not good mom at 11… it lack of sexual education…:(

  • stresx

    the age of consent varies worldwide. in america or usa as it is known, only a few states recognize 18 as the legal age to have sex, other states recognize lower age bar.  we see these cases happening in south american nations also, in mexico for instance it is not that uncommon seeing young girls getting pregnant. honduras, guatemala, el salvador and other countries below it have shown this problem also. arab/muslim nations also have a similar problem, with iran and afghanistan showing very serious problems of having young girls married to adult males, often by force and against the girl’s knowledge and consent. i think we should consider this into the formula of morality when trying to understand what is right or wrong with child pregnancies. 11 years is low, and biologically it isn’t impossible. but morally speaking this age may be violating some kind of human principle that is connected with abuse, mainly because one is likely to think that the female child is just too young to understand what she does in having sex with an older partner. modern societies have developed advanced law philosophies that guide their conduct toward a high minimum age bar. but don’t go to far, in the 1990s in usa there was an increase of teen pregnancies, and i think that each nation around the world experiences this situation every year. 

    what keeps humans apart from the rest of the animals in this world is their ability to reason and to judge according to their apprehension of moral and ethical and logical values. moral human intelligence provides a means by which people can determine exactly what is wrong with a particular behavior and how it should be performed or avoided in the future. there are still child marriages held in india, and in old age china arranged marriages was quite common; and let us not forget the fact that chinese emperors loved young concubines.

    this is not to say that a child age 11 ought to be legally allowed by government to perform sex freely. but there is nothing that is going to stop an 11 year old girl (young woman depending on how one sees things in society) from having her sex experience. a few years ago a report showed that teens in usa were having sex as early as 13 and that the number may be lower in the near future. i personally believe that most teens have sex experience (although not necessarily penetration) around 13, so there’s the likelihood that some teens may have their sex experience at an early age, say 12 or even 11, depending on the circumstances of the case.

    is this case rape? by law it may be considered rape, but again that depends on the law of the particular nation considered. if the female lied about her age it still does not absolve the male partner from his legal obligation to avoid that sexual conduct with someone who may look or who actually looks younger than the age she claims to be. i think there’s a burden on the males in most cases to secure themselves in cases where the female may actually be “legally protected against sex”. and i believe that many males use their “i did not know she was a minor” excuse as a defense against rape accusation and conviction.

    very well, i have provided some thoughts on the matter

    i hope i have been of service

    happiness

    stresx

  • Alyssa

    Obviously they didn’t know what they were doing was wrong. I mean if they didn’t know what a condom was. If it was legal for her to marry the guy in that country something’s not right but still u can’t really blame anyone in this, her pregnancy doesn’t affect u so don’t bash her or him.

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