Why Your Husband Doesn’t Want Pregnancy Sex

Pregnant Woman with HusbandThere are many men who experience problems when engaging in pregnancy sex. It’s hardly ever determined by the man’s race, religion or any other statistics. It’s simply a matter of whether he can do it or not. Many pregnant women complain that their partners are either not interested to have pregnancy sex, or can’t do it. These women reason that they are not attractive enough to arouse their man, especially in the later stages. However, there are lots of men who would claim that their pregnant partner is in fact a heavenly beauty. So what is the deal? What are actual problems that some men face with pregnancy sex, specifically late stage pregnancy?

Someone Else’s Presence

Some men feel uncomfortable knowing that his child is in the room, which is understandable.

The Baby Might Get Hurt

A surprisingly huge number of men believe that they might be knocking the baby on the head. It’s impossible. Explain it to him.

Girl Problem

Many men who know that their pregnant wife is carrying a girl feel very uneasy being intimate with their daughter so near.

Afraid of Hurting You

Communication is of the utmost importance at this stage. You should clarify what is acceptable and what’s not. For example, tell him not to apply pressure on your stomach or that a cushion should be around just in case. It’s your job to convince him that you won’t get hurt if he uses the right position and the right amount of pressure.

Positioning

You have to accept it; it’s very difficult to find the right position and angle while having sex with a pregnant wife, but you can try to work out something.

Scared that His Semen Might Bring on Premature Birth

This is true to some extent. Semen does contain something called prostaglandins which trigger the coming of the baby. But this works only near the due date, so you should comfort him that pregnancy sex won’t be a trouble maker.

He’s Overlooking the Fact that Intimacy Is not All about Sex

There are many, many ways to have fun without engaging in intercourse. Maybe you should remind him passionately.

He Isn’t Aware that Pregnant Women Experience the Most Intense Orgasms

With some tender persuasion that females experience earth shattering orgasms in late stage pregnancy due to the increased blood flow to the related regions, he might become very interested in finding it out.

Half of all men actually have problems engaging in sex with a pregnant woman, especially women in the late stages of pregnancy. So if you find that your man is not able to perform, blame one of the above reasons and don’t worry about the fact that your man doesn’t find you beautiful.

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  • bubbles

    omg i really cant believe some of the males and females! on here ?? Thinking of cheating on their partners because of high or low sex drives, what ever the problem in the relationship there is NO excuse to cheat!! I seriously feel like ive come to the wrong place to even state my situation… Tho it has nothing to do with my boyfriend not wanting sex . I am 29 weeks pregnant and Its actually the fact that we have been trying tho ive had days there with intense pelvic pain which is making it quite hard to finish our session. Which has put my bf off a bit to the fact that it does sometimes cause me pain. Tho our situation does not at all have any of us thinking of cheating on each other. We still love each other. That is what love is about through thick and thin stand by each other! not every male is out there to cheat most males find pregnant women attractive!

  • Jackie

    Well as soon as my husband found out I was pregnant he walked out the door and never came back. He quit his 6 figure job and abanded his BMW in a grocey store parking lot, and an envelope that contained his car keys, all credit cards, cell phone, ss card, medical card and his drivers licence, and a very hurtful note. I’m glad I left I couldn’t stand a big gut pregnant slob, I hope your happy with your little future doper. That is not all after I was in the hospital delevering he came back and cancelled the lease on our apartment, sold all the furniture and threw out all my clothes . I’m currently living in a womens shelter with my baby girl. I never thought my life would turn out like it has. I’m depressed and can’t afford to see a doctor. I might have to give up the baby for adoption.

  • Benny

    Women are selfish hypocrites, and pregnancy sex is depraved and disgusting. Grow up.

  • Dymondzncurlz

    To mw: there was one who commented on “nature” and that it was the female’s job to find the best man suitable to get her pregnant. Your girlfriend has done this. The rest of us are sad that we have not. :(

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